Defining Natural Menopause & What It Means In Reality
"Healing," Papa would tell me, "is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature." ~ W.H. Auden
The medical community generally defines menopause as the cessation of menstrual cycles. That definition, in my opinion, is about as accurate as one describing a hurricane as a rainstorm. There is a lot more to the process of menopause than simply the cessation of menstrual cycles.
Speaking with experience, the menopause certainly lives up to its reputation, ' The Change Of Life!' Spare me the roars, ' The menopause is natural,' ' Natural rites of passage for women,' ' Menopause is the second part of your life,' The menopause is a time for self discovery,' 'The menopause brings freedom to enjoy great sex,' etc.
Where's the Natural Menopause when it makes you very ill as your whole body starts to malfunction?
What life are they talking about? The life you try so hard to remember that doesn't exist any more. With your memory failing big time, besides depression and a host of health complaints, if someone shouted and pointed ' Over here to get a life," you'd run for cover and hide till they were gone!
Oh yes, the menopause is a time for self -discovery, any given moment suddenly tuning into new painful symptoms and sensations, hot flushes, headaches, insomnia, joint aches, unwanted weight gain, loss of confidence, and libido. I could happily type on and never run out of symptoms, but I don't want to make you feel depressed.
Great sex, in deed. A sexual mood would have to hit you like a tidal wave and even at that, with no natural lubricants, the pain wouldn't let you even want to even try and no amount of k-jelly works like nature.
Menopause is puberty in reverse. Do you remember when you were a young teenager? You were emotional, to say the very least. You could be happy and carefree one minute, and in the depths of depression the next over a broken fingernail.
Your body was doing weird things and sending out signals that were new and confusing -- not to mention flooding your body with hormones that caused your face to break out, always at the worst possible moment. First, you needed a bra. Hair started to grow in places other than your head.
All in all, puberty wasn't just a whole heck of a lot of fun. Menopause isn't any fun, either, but it doesn't have to be the end of the world. You survived puberty. You've probably survived childbirth. You will survive menopause, and frankly, on the other side of the process, if you seek SELF-help measures. While it's said, that there's a lot of freedom given by the menopause, that you haven't even gotten around to considering yet. For many women, there's a lot of health misery they won't have had any notion of either.
Freedom, you ask? You main gain freedom having joined the menopause club but it comes with a price? Well, for one thing, you may well rejoice that those monthly cramps are a thing of the past once menopause is complete. You will be able to thumb your nose at the "feminine products" aisle at the grocery store. You aren't likely to ever have another zit. You won't have to worry any longer about birth control or the possibility of getting pregnant, but for many women there is endless health problems to deal with from emotional, mental ability, physically symptoms that cross over into effecting physical ability. No matter how you dress up the so called freedoms provided by the menopause losing your periods comes with a huge personal feminine price.
Yes, menopause is the cessation of the menstrual cycle. On the other side of the process of called menopause, you are going to find a lot of freedom that you never even dreamed of. In reality many women have to dig deep to find natural solutions for health problems they never dreamed about, not alone say, learn to live with them.
Even the women who have said with pride, “I never even knew that I was in the menopause, I had not even one hot flush, nothing. I sailed through it.” As if the menopause crimes again womanhood ended with no symptoms of having entered menopause or post.
Yet, if you asked these woman do they sleep at night, most will say they can't sleep all night; they have weight issues they cannot resolve; suffer extreme memory lapses, mood swings more than usual, lack energy to carry out a normal day's work, so good for natural menopause? Besides they are often no longer at the driving wheel of meaningful and exciting lives. I have noticed many have simply withdrawn from life and if you look closely you will see there is no sparkle of life left in their eyes. What these menopausal symptomless women, didn't realise at the time, was their health troubles could have been silently developing and ten years later show up as conditions and diseases.
As example here's a selection of friends: four of whom were ten years post menopause. Four had to deal with breast cancer, one with ovarian. Sadly, one didn't make it. Another suffering with heart disease and another diabetes. The ten years post ladies, had all gushed how well the menopause had treated them. Unlike the women that face health challenges from the very second their hormones start to slip away, their missing periods were replaced with real health conditions and diseases.
Untold told numbers of women believe the menopause is natural that the medical profession has instilled; but the truth lies in the fact, yes, the menopause is natural biological process, BUT only if we were dying between the ages of 40 and 45 as we did a 100-years ago. Before the full onslaught of the menopause. We are not suppose to live without vital hormones and to be clear, your not just losing sexual hormones, all your hormones dwindle every year. But, there's no need to suffer from having a Natural Menopause, you can now choose to Avoid or Escape the Menopause, just by using the Wiley Protocol. Other BHRT methods will simply restore your hormones to a level you have no negative menopausal symptoms. The choice is yours as to how far you rejuvenate yourself.
Every day mainstream churn out conflicting advise about BHRT to deter women from taking control of their bodies and lives using natural herbs and healing therapies. They say BHRT can't restore women's health, zest of life once menopause takes over. Research and you will undercover inspiring news!
Yet, bioidentical hormones have been around for years and I mean years. Pioneer MD doctors have been keeping a close eye on side effects and any noted any difficulties with Bio's and guess what? So far, they haven''t been given too many unnatural reasons too stop prescribing them unlike synthetic HRT. Their patients worldwide -are glowing and filled with nothing but phrase for their natural Bio HRT therapy.
Taken into account, all the long term suffering that's associated with a ' Natural Menopause? ' The mainstream medical profession won't make me suffer, they have enough women to look after as result of accepting the 'Change of life without rejection. 'I'll have a virtual monthly happy period with no eggs to worry about. Bring on the BHRT. I'll let you take my chocolate but you won't touch my Wiley protocol bioidentical hormonal restoration
"Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. " ~ Tori Amos
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Legal Disclaimer: Hopefully you have found information on this blog inspiring and useful, but do remember it is not a substitute for personal medical advice. Self medicating with BHRT is not advisable! Always consult your own medical advisor, be it your doctor, or Holistic Medical doctors specialising in anti ageing, bioidentical hormone therapy, if you have any concerns about any aspect of health or hormonal functioning